An assumption that some people hold is the belief that life is inherently hard—that our world is a challenging, unforgiving place. This belief often stems from personal experiences, societal narratives, or cultural conditioning that reinforce the idea that success and happiness require relentless struggle. When individuals view life through this lens, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, where every obstacle feels insurmountable, and every setback seems like proof that life is indeed difficult.
This mindset often creates a cycle of pain, struggle, and exhaustion. When people believe that life is a constant uphill battle, they may approach challenges with resistance or dread, magnifying their stress. They might also miss opportunities for joy and growth, focusing instead on what feels wrong or overwhelming. This belief can sap motivation, making it harder to find solutions or embrace resilience.
However, shifting this perspective can be transformative. Life undoubtedly has challenges, but reframing them as opportunities for learning and growth can alleviate the weight of this belief. Choosing to focus on possibilities rather than limitations can cultivate a mindset of abundance and gratitude, reducing struggle and opening the door to a more balanced, fulfilling experience of life.
Here’s to you having a transformative perspective in the new year! I wish you all the best!